I guess I’ll aim to catch up on what we’ve been doing since the last posts. I’m really slacking here on my job as family historian… And since the blog should (someday, in my (haha) spare time) get put into a book for our family, I think I’d like these memories, even if they’re not very thorough since my brain is currently shrinking. (Seriously, your brain shrinks during pregnancy and then gets bigger again postpartum).
So. My mom drove back with us after Thanksgiving, and helped us cut down and put up our Christmas tree. Jason was suffering from some really major back pain and we were worried it was something serious (thank goodness it wasn’t!).
Christmas 2014 in New Jersey.
My favorite memory of the week was probably watching Lilly with her cousins. It’s so cool to see her in social settings where she is playing along with other kids or holding her own as the kids negotiate different play scenarios. I had also rarely been in a situation to see her really interacting with other kids while completely ignoring me, so it was fun to be a fly on the wall in her little world. She had so much fun. She has so much love for her cousins, and I love how easily she seems to be able to play with any of them.
Eleanor, at Christmas, was still having episodes of what I think was reflux (lots of it caused by dairy, I think?). We didn’t bring the pillows to elevate the mattress that she was sleeping on, and she went back to daily vomiting while we were there. She was also a bit clingier than usual. I thought it may have been that she was shy/overwhelmed by all of the new faces, but actually, this little one is now so very very outgoing that I doubt that was the case. It’s actually strange to think of El at Christmas – she has changed so much in the last 7 (7!!!) months – she’s now eating great, she can walk, talk, and she’s pretty much a full-fledged kid, no longer a baby.
We were in NJ for nearly two weeks, and had a great time swimming at the hotel we were staying at, playing up a storm with cousins, and visiting with extended family.
We even brought a tiny Christmas tree to decorate our hotel room. Santa brought the kids 3 presents each Christmas morning, and we thought Lilly might be even a little surprised, but she was like “oh yeah” like she had been expecting it all along. Santa brought Lil the pink Ariel dress that she’d been eyeing for months, and some accessories. The girls each got a book and a small pool toy, too (for use in the hotel pool).
And of course, they were spoiled rotten by Grammy and Poppy Christmas Day, too.
This is my favorite ever family photo… thanks, Lilly.
New Year’s was eventful because both kids got sick and were throwing up a bunch. We delayed our trip home by a day because we didn’t want anyone vomiting in the car. Not a great way to start the New Year, but it’s looking like this year will end on a better note than it started on!
Hi! I’m here! With a summer off of work and new ambitions to add blogging back into my routine. Or whatever semblance of routine I might have with two small kids and nowhere to be. We pretty much do what we want (and love it).
Big changes happening here. Eleanor walks, talks, sings, dances, and is officially her own person despite the fact that she’s still the size of your average 15-month old. I can’t believe my baby girl will be 2 soon. Lilly just turned 4 and can now do just about anything “all by myself!” and she’ll sweetly remind you that she doesn’t need any help whenever you overstep your boundaries. It’s really cool to see both girls become themselves.
It’s also amazing to watch their little relationship blossom. I am pretty sure they are crazy about each other. The other day, Lilly woke first and when El woke, she said, “Good morning! How about a hug for your big sister?!” And Elli was happy to oblige. Lilly is also often overheard saying, “I am your big sister and I will look out for you!” And this morning, she added in, “You are the little sister, you can look out for me!” Eleanor, for her part, does nearly everything Lilly does — if Lilly is playing Rapunzel, El jumps in. If Lil is a mermaid, so is Elli. El has been recently seen raiding her sister’s closet (already!? yikes), and can actually pull off a few 4T outfits paired with shoes that are 5 sizes too big.
And the two of them are just so darn sweet that we thought we might as well add another happy little face to the family portrait. So: coming this fall, another big change for our little family. I am so thrilled, and also so amazed by how fast time continues to pass. I think I might blink and have a newborn in my arms. Jason is obviously happy about having another little buddy, though he admits that the first year is not his specialty. :) He’s very excited for the toddler years. The girls have been really great. Lilly initially asked if Baby Tres would “come out today” every. single. day. That has since stopped, but she often asks to cuddle Tres or kiss Tres or feel for baby Tres to kick her. Eleanor understands (I think) that there is a baby in my tummy, and likes to get a silly smile on her face and say “poke!” while poking at Baby Tres.
This pregnancy has, admittedly, been tougher than the first two. I felt sicker in the first trimester, and have had terrible TERRIBLE lower back/hip pain starting at like 20 weeks. It, luckily, hasn’t gotten worse as I’ve gotten bigger (as I feared), and seems to be better with stretching and exercise, so I am managing. I am just so grateful that the baby is, by all indications, healthy, and that the girls are handling my physical limitations pretty well, and that Jason keeps us all well taken care of (especially with the good eats coming off the grill lately!).
So… that is our big news! And I hope to be back with more fun stories/pictures of our adventures VERY soon. I’ve got some catching up to do. :)
Here’s what I remember from November: snow.
We had a pretty big snow early in the month, and ever since Jason mentioned his love of snowy Christmas card photos a few years ago, it’s been tradition to try to get some good photos on the first snow. (To be really honest, I’m not sure if Jason was messing with me when he said that, but he started a thing and we’ve been going with it.)
So, it snowed and I told Lilly I wanted to take her and El outside for a few photos on the new (to us) old sled that we found in my grandparents’ garage. She decided that she needed to be in her Elsa costume, and El in her Anna costume. I was going to go in a different direction for Christmas card photos, but she was SO VERY INTO IT that I couldn’t possibly say no. And I’m glad I didn’t — just a few quick snaps and I was able to get several photos of BOTH of them looking and smiling (a Christmas miracle!).
We traveled to MN for Thanksgiving. It was kind of a long drive, but we are always ALWAYS excited to travel to the frozen tundra to see family, and especially when there’s mashed potatoes involved. We had a great time visiting with grandparents, aunts, uncle, cousins. My aunt and uncle are quite the turkey day hosts! I am drooling just thinking about all of the yummy food…
We went to the world’s shortest Christmas parade (involving Santa, Mrs Clause, an elf, an angel, and some sort of German Walz champion prince and princess, followed by 4 cars with advertisements posted on them). It was not as cool as the website suggested, but BUT! Lilly had her first Santa encounter of the year, in which she marched right up to Santa and said, “I would like that Ariel dress. The pink one with the long long long sleeves.” Not at all shy, that one.
Jason and I got some date nights out of it — TWO IN A ROW! Woohoo!
And we got a chance to visit with Cousin Catherine, newly returned to the frozen tundra, and to see her little house, meet her boyfriend, see her chickens and kitties, and pet and feed her horses. She has a cute cute little house! And we haven’t gotten to see her as much as we should since she lived so far away, but she’s back! Yaaaaaaaaay! (And now Lilly wants horses…)
(Of course we had to get a few photos with the giant cherry on a spoon.)
After Thanksgiving week, the girls and I hung out in MKE with my family for a week while Jason drove back to MI to work. We had all sorts of fun — Lil and my mom made a gingerbread house, Lilly and my dad went ice skating, some quality time with my grandparents, Eleanor got a sled ride across the ice at the rink, there was Christmas shopping, and a show — The Lion King (it was amazing).
Like nearly every other preschool/school-aged girl in America, Lilly was dying to be Queen Elsa from Frozen for Halloween. Luckily, Eleanor didn’t yet possess the words to object, and she made the cutest little princess Anna. Jason and I filled in as Kristoff and Olaf. As a happy coincidence, at least 3/4 of those characters dress appropriately for late October in Michigan.
My mom was kind enough to sew the girls costumes, and she totally knocked it out of the park. Little Anna’s costume especially. I also love this soft white robe that she made for Queen Elsa — the little ice queen needed something to keep her warm!
I pieced together Olaf from some hot glue, felt, and pipe cleaners. And Jason’s encino Kristoff costume didn’t turn out quite as cute as planned, but it did the job for a cold cold cold Halloween evening. We managed to trick-or-treat in the super-cold weather for about 45 minutes before Lilly called it quits. I ended up wearing tiny princess Anna in a wool wrap under my down coat, so the two of us were quite cuddly and warm. Lilly’s Elsa dress fit two layers (one fleece) underneath, so she stayed warm for a while, too. Both kids were thrilled to eat their spoils once we returned from trick-or-treating. And I was thrilled to steal at least 3/4 of their candy for my own enjoyment once they were sleeping. :)
And here we are talking about October in mid-January. Progress.
Our annual pumpkin hunt/photo shoot (because, again, it’s at least 90% about picture taking) occurred on a sunny and mostly warmish (for October in Michigan) day. It’s tricky to get both kids actually looking and smiling at the camera, so there’s about 456 million pictures from this day. I won’t publish all of them. :)
I can remember walking around, wheeling the kiddos in the wagon. Lilly picked out at least 30 pumpkins, loaded them in the cart one by one, and Jason put most of them back in the field, one at a time, when Lilly wasn’t looking. We were excited to see the cows in the field, and a little terrified when they came close enough to touch. They were eating pumpkins, which was just SO SILLY.
We carved the pumpkins when we got home. Lilly was not into touching any of the pumpkin guts, but of course wanted to use the knife. Jason let her help design her jack o lantern, but decided to keep the knife work to himself. (Good choice.) She was totally into making sure that the jack o lanterns were lit and outside, and it is SO FUN to have her participate, understand, and enjoy some of our seasonal traditions. I’ve been on the lookout for more traditions to add to our family repertoire because it is just so fun to see how exciting even the smallest/silliest traditions (lighted up pumpkins?) are for her.
Eleanor also seemed to enjoy herself, and checked out the pumpkin goo with a little surprise and much joy. She was pretty silly this day. Actually, she is often silly, making cute scrunchy nosed faces, and, recently, singing. She makes us laugh every day, and I think we are all enjoying watching her little personality blossom.
Whew! I’m on a roll here with this blogging thing, aren’t I? :)
We travelled to Pittsburgh at the end of September for a friend’s wedding, and had the added bonus that Jason’s parents met us there! It was really great to see them (and so great to get two date nights in a row! not to mention the awesome hour and a half nap that J, Eleanor, and I snuck in while Grammy and Poppy took Lil to lunch. I don’t even remember the last time I napped, but it felt soooooo luxurious.)
The rehearsal dinner was at the MLB park in Pittsburgh, and the wedding was downtown. It was a gorgeous wedding — the flowers were A.MAZ.ING — but I neglected to take photos. BAAAAADDD blogger.
The girls (especially Lilly) were SO HAPPY to see Grammy and Poppy. SO HAPPY. They had a blast! So thanks to Gram and Pop for giving J and I some time to ourselves and to hang out with friends.
A fall tradition we couldn’t pass by this year was picking apples. (And by tradition, I mean this is the second year we’ve gone, and I am probably going to make us go every year so that it really truly turns into a tradition.) We managed to find a sunny day when the orchard was surprisingly not crowded, and we did a pretty good job finding not fully ripe apples and putting them in the bag. We also did a good job of sampling an apple or two. Or more.
But more than apples, this trip is really actually about me taking a million photos. Not all of them turned out amazing (I’m blaming the bright midday sun and my uncertainty about how to deal with it), but the pictures of the girls sharing an apple are just so sweet. And this happened totally unprompted, and at a moment in time when Eleanor wasn’t showing much interest in chewing/swallowing, so it was extra thrilling to see her interest in Lilly’s freshly picked apple.
The last two photos were taken at the apple picking farm in a small shed that housed a few goats and a miniature horse. Lilly was excited, then nervous about them (the goats got up in her face and were very loud). Eleanor screamed, terrified the minute we set foot in the barn.
And finally, I found this picture from one of our grocery store adventures, and the family historian in me thought I should mention the everyday fun that is the grocery store. We are simultaneously the best and worst in the grocery store. Both children are quick to identify Oreos (Eleanor also reliably picks veggie straws) and ask to place them in the cart. I love Oreos (and they’re one of very few dairy free cookies at the grocery store), so I agree. Lilly, who is usually in the back of the cart, cracks them open. Eleanor, who begins most grocery trips in the Ergo, squeals and rubs her tummy (sign language for “please”) until I place her in the cart next to Lilly. The two of them proceed to share many -MANY- Oreos, until this mean mama puts the kabosh on their fun. This arrangement is the best because: the kids are so quiet and well-behaved in the grocery store! I can concentrate on making sure I get everything on my list! And how sweet is it that they sit in the cart, sharing and talking and giggling together?!
And this arrangement is the worst because: I feel strange/guilty?/wrong? about opening items before they’re paid for and also this arrangement leaves fewer Oreos for me. Oh. And maybe I should be teaching them self-control by making them wait until later for the cookies? Sigh.
(Also, re: the dress: Lilly will only wear dresses at this point. One day in December she told me, “From now on, I will only wear the sparkly clothes.” Luckily, she has broken that, because she has only a few sparkly things. But she is AAAAALLLLL about dresses, preferably long ones that twirl — her current faves are Hanna Andersson twirl dresses, and her favorite tights are thick Gap tights with sparkly stars or stripes on them.)
We HAD to throw Eleanor a little party with friends for her first birthday. HAD to.
I know this is one of those things she’ll never ever remember, but: 1. J and I remember (and at least 90% of parenting these kids is about me), and 2. we had a tough first year together and wanted to celebrate growing beyond that.
So I made some monkey-themed invites, and we threw a little monkey party.
The power went out the night before the party (you know, when I was supposed to do all the prep!), so I decorated cupcakes and cake by candle light. I think they turned out okay anyways.
We were lucky that most of our friends could make it to celebrate E, and it’s always fun to see all of the kiddos running around the back yard while the adults attempt to actually have conversations with each other.
For decor, we stuck with simple balloons and flags (which I crafted with fabric and glue by candlelight the night before the party!). I also had a photoboard up with weekly pictures of E’s first year — nearly all of them taken cuddling the little sock monkey my gramma made for her (which is also why I went with a monkey theme). Luckily, I had finished printing the photos earlier in the week, so that project wasn’t affected by the power outage. Unluckily, I forgot to take a photo of the board, so you don’t get to see it. Imagine 52 pictures scotch-taped to a giant white board, and you’ve pretty much got it.
She was CRAZY about the balloons. (Eleanor is screaming and giggling in over the top excitement in the above photo.)
Barely ate any cake. (Don’t worry, Lilly and I overcompensated for her.)
And, we typically tell our party guests that presents aren’t necessary, but E did get a few presents and was happy to open them (with big sister’s help, of course). In all, it was a great afternoon!